They may not have taken an acting class or even studied theater. But! If faking orgasms where a category, many would get a nomination for Best Actress Between the Sheets.
Over 80 percent of women lay claim to having faked the big O during their love-making sessions. But wait! It's really not all their fault. Out of 100 women polled there were several reasons why women stated that they had faked an orgasmic event; however, over 63 percent of the women in this poll stated that they faked it because they wanted to protect their man's ego.
You see, a man's ego is driven by many factors that could determine the out come of his sexual attitude between the sheets. Many times a man's act of chivalry is eclipsed by a competitive will to out perform his lover. If a woman realizes that she is only present to validate her man's self-worth; her thoughts of adopting a cooperative mind-set between the sheets will cease to exist. She'll lose interest and ultimately fake it.
But don't be too upset with him. In part, the sexual upbringing of many men has caused them to become supercilious between the sheets. They are simply behaving in a manner passed down by generations of men who themselves had no positive influences regarding their sexual education. Relying on the information that has negatively impacted and influenced how they respond to the needs of their women - they've adopted an egotistical attitude in-order to defend their reputation.
Ladies, what men need lies not so much in you protecting our ego inasmuch as the need for you to be honest with us. Sure, coming clean or being honest will be tough, at first, and it will probably cause conflict. However, you'll have to take some responsibility of your sexuality and let your beau know that you enjoy making loving to him, but you do want to have an orgasm. I know! You would rather fake it than to face any kind of conflict; it's just too uncomfortable. However, conflict without an uncomfortable feeling is not real, and real honesty is what men need. Once these types of conversation become more frequent he'll listen and hold fast to that in-which you're saying.
Ladies, nothing good to your relationship can come from faking orgasms. If you're faking it, you could be bound to a life of deception. Don't allow your fear of conflict keep you silent. Talking to your partner will not only strengthen your relationship but he won't feel the need to protect his ego.
Over 80 percent of women lay claim to having faked the big O during their love-making sessions. But wait! It's really not all their fault. Out of 100 women polled there were several reasons why women stated that they had faked an orgasmic event; however, over 63 percent of the women in this poll stated that they faked it because they wanted to protect their man's ego.
You see, a man's ego is driven by many factors that could determine the out come of his sexual attitude between the sheets. Many times a man's act of chivalry is eclipsed by a competitive will to out perform his lover. If a woman realizes that she is only present to validate her man's self-worth; her thoughts of adopting a cooperative mind-set between the sheets will cease to exist. She'll lose interest and ultimately fake it.
But don't be too upset with him. In part, the sexual upbringing of many men has caused them to become supercilious between the sheets. They are simply behaving in a manner passed down by generations of men who themselves had no positive influences regarding their sexual education. Relying on the information that has negatively impacted and influenced how they respond to the needs of their women - they've adopted an egotistical attitude in-order to defend their reputation.
Ladies, what men need lies not so much in you protecting our ego inasmuch as the need for you to be honest with us. Sure, coming clean or being honest will be tough, at first, and it will probably cause conflict. However, you'll have to take some responsibility of your sexuality and let your beau know that you enjoy making loving to him, but you do want to have an orgasm. I know! You would rather fake it than to face any kind of conflict; it's just too uncomfortable. However, conflict without an uncomfortable feeling is not real, and real honesty is what men need. Once these types of conversation become more frequent he'll listen and hold fast to that in-which you're saying.
Ladies, nothing good to your relationship can come from faking orgasms. If you're faking it, you could be bound to a life of deception. Don't allow your fear of conflict keep you silent. Talking to your partner will not only strengthen your relationship but he won't feel the need to protect his ego.
I hear what your saying. But, not all men have ego issues. Women need to open up more.
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